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Transgender Caitlin - Daughter of Santosh Pant
A 42 year old woman who revealed she has slept with more than 1000 men stunned everyone by admitting she actually was a man who changed her gender in 2005.
Miss Warren said: "I'm scared there will be a lot of angry men out there reading this but I have to tell the truth”, and added, “but they never asked”.
She says, "A lot of people will think I've lied to those I've had sex with. But I don't feel I have because I'm a woman and my past is all behind me. I don't want any man I've ever been with to doubt his sexuality now because of this. They didn't know they were sleeping with somebody like me. I'm now just like any other girl who wants to enjoy my life after many years without the right body. Now I've got the body I want to use it all the time."
She says that even when she was young she felt as though she was a female trapped in a boy's body. Miss Warren said her parents realised from a young age - and her dad even bought her a skirt for her fourth birthday. She revealed as a teenager, she used to try her mother’s clothes when her parents were out.
In 2002 Miss Warren began having hormone and laser treatment to remove body hair and develop a 38B bust. She had to undergo counselling before having full gender reassignment surgery seven years ago.
She has been issued with a Gender Recognition Certificate after the operation, which allows her to legally change her birth certificate to reflect her new name and sex.
She used to sleep with men even before the operation while she used to work in the shop in Brighton, East Sussex. She grew up in Bridgwater, in Somerset, told The Sun: “I first had sex when I was 17 or 18. I didn't feel it was right because I was in a man's body. But I was at the age when you want to experiment sexually and it was the only way I could. All the men I had sex with knew I was born male, though, until after my surgery.”
She used to meet most of her men in the gay bars and clubs because it was the most comfortable place for her. She says, sleeping with a different man every night was 'brilliant', but says it wasn't as simple as her being gay.
After moving to Brighton Miss Warren began the process of gender reassignment. She added: “I'm now just like any other girl who wants to enjoy my life after many years without the right body. Now I've got the body I want to use it all the time. I slept with a hell of a lot of men before my operation but once I had the body I'd always wanted my sex drive went crazy.”
She started having sex with ten different men at a swingers party after 3 months of her surgery and she doesn't feel bad about not revealing her past because her secret was little different to the men she slept with who 'may have been married or had a girlfriend or been to prison'.
She told the Sun: 'I no longer refer to myself as a post-op transsexual because I needed to put that label behind me to move on. I haven't come as far as I have to be reminded all the time. “Having this secret has held me back in the past but now it's out I feel I can take on the world. I think about sex all day.”
Miss Warren admits her having sex addict and blames her sex addiction on witnessing painful breakdown of her parents' marriage when she was five. She sometimes sleeps with as many as seven men in a day, who she will pick up in pubs or even at the shops. She used to think it was completely normal to have a sex drive for many years but now she admits it as a problem as she is in her 40ish and she constantly needs sex but she still can’t face getting professional help.
She continues, sex is the only thing that makes her feel good and she can’t have productive day without sex. She goes to find her sex partner before and after her work as well as in her afternoon break during work. She gets frustrated if she doesn’t have enough sex and she feels low and depressed. She says, ”I guess when the men start saying no, I’ll stop having sex.”
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